Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Guess what..?I have found that flirting have its own facts.. and some call it as a fine art of flirting? haha..so, just to make sure that you’re in the same page on this, I happen to get some very surprising information that you (or we!) can use to the advantage. Read on folks! (^.^)

The Facts:
  • Hey..what do you know? Flirting is actually GOOD for you..haha. Studies show that people who flirt have higher white blood-cell counts, which boost both immunity and health. Meaning that people who is active in flirting activites are more healthy than normal people who (from my point of view) spending their time eating fast foods while watching tv and go to sleep after get back from work. BUT!! this doesn't give you the credit for you to betray your spouse's trust and loyalty. You can flirt with your spouse and at the same time rekindled the romance aura in your relationship.

  • For the girls..When you think batting your eyelashes to a guy you admired is enough to give him the signal that you are so into him and that both of you will be a great couple together or you want him to know that it will be a moment of you if you end-up having him as your bf-that-you-always-wanted, you know what? You are wrong! It is not enough. As been told, scientists say there are 52 “flirting signals” used by humans to get the attractions. Same goes to the guys. It is not enough , when you expect you can get the attention from the girl you always aim of with your nerdy and innocent smile everytime you bumped into her along with the puppy-dog eyes, hey..that would be nice but ..wake up! You need to step-up with the confidence and make a real move to impress her. Of all these, yeah I'm sure that (for the girls) the hair-flip technique is the most common. But.. to apply the other techniques or as you call "flirting signals", you just have to get up and find it by your own. Who knows, you might learn something that you never think of and can use it for your good. Don't aspect me to list it down here..okay. haha ;D

  • Do you know , in some places, flirting is illegal. In Little Rock, AR, an antiquated law is still on the books warning that engaging in playful banter may result in a 30-day jail term. In New York City, another outdated law mandates that men may be fined $25 for gazing lasciviously at a female; a second conviction stipulates the offender wear a pair of blinders whenever he goes out for a walk.

  • Why wait for Friday? Lots of people get their flirt on during their morning commute. A full 62 percent of drivers have flirted with someone in a different vehicle while on the go, and 31 percent of those flirtations, it turns out, resulted in a date.

  • Flirting need not occur face to face. According to the Pew Research Center, 40 percent of people who look for love online say they can easily flirt with someone via email or IM.

  • In the Victorian era, fans were the ultimate playful props that could communicate all sorts of messages. A fan placed near the heart meant “You have won my love.” A half-opened fan pressed to the lips was an invitation, saying, “You may kiss me.” Hiding the eyes behind an open fan meant “I love you,” while opening and closing the fan several times was a chastisement, implying, “You are cruel.” Given how much a fan could come in handy, it’s a shame they ever invented air conditioning.
  • These days, cell phones do the flirting for you. In one survey, half of all mobile phone users have texted flirty messages to keep things interesting while separated from their amour.

  • Watch out; you can overdo it. According to the Social Issues Research Centre, the most common mistake people make when flirting is maintaining too much eye contact.

  • Sometimes, flirty gestures aren’t what they seem to be. Research has shown that men tend to routinely mistake friendly behavior for flirting.

  • Flirting is universal. A woman living in New York City and one in rural Cambodia may not have much in common, but when it comes to attracting a little attention, they both employ the very same move: smiling, arching their eyebrows, then averting their gaze and giggling. Animals flirt, too: birds, reptiles, and even fish have their own way of making romantic advances.

    The moral of the story: If the simple sea bass can act cute in order to further a romantic agenda, you can, too — so give it a go! haha (^.^)

p/s: it is a simple information that I wanted to share..don't put the blame on me if you got problems with your loved one when you 'kantoi' flirting..okay? it is on your decision so do it at your own risk.haha.