THE FIRST BLOG

Okay.First of all.. You have to know the fact that getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting the car of your dream. But unlike a car which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 percent discount in courting the girl of your dreams, because she's so sweet a thing to be discounted and you dearly are in love with her plus your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth but by the words of the heart. So it means getting the girl actually depends on how big your heart is ~faint heart, never won fair lady~

The first dating idea for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, dress or do the common things just to get a decent girl's attention. You have to try to be unique, that's all you need.
Be a man of his own style. Dress decently ~ indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance~, Watch your language ~obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured, Be a man of good habits ~don't drink or smoke too much like any other loser~

Take your time. Add some romance to your dating style and be creative in order to get her attention.

Befriending and understanding the girl.It is the important thing. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored and needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you'll get to know what she's into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built upon friendship and it always leaves individuals better off having known each other or should they break up. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will make her create room for you in her heart.

Be the shoulder to lean on and good friend that she can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This above all other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she will have found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.

Make the girl feel special because she's someone's friend ~ your friend~ and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.

Make sure she knew that in your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world and every aspect of your life with your dream's girl. Always dream with her, build with her and always cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl of your dreams how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Let the girl know that she's your first thing in the morning and the last thing when you go to bed at night. Let her know that she is so special to you and you also want to be special in her life.

Be in her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go 'my my' and her heart will sing your name all the year round.

As in the first phase, you have to be creative and constructive to keep the girl's interest in you so full of life. If you could, never fail to phone her ~even when she least expects it~. Make surprise ..but not the kind of surprise that you know she will hate it or get mad at you.Okay? Play safe. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to such matters as kissing her and accessing her inner graces and so on..Don't force her to accept you even when you knew that she might not fall-in-love with you as you were expected but just show her the love you have and just hope the best for both of you.

Now, the writing is on the wall that you want her but you can't have her just yet. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much cold, she's actually missing her vitamin, that is you. By this time, she'll be so much into you and since love is truthful and is characterized by open and honest communication, honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll always be there for her, to listen and to hold her hand and that you'll always do your best to make her happy and feel loved. Together is the best medicine she will ever get.

But above all, remember.. patience is the key to her heart .For example, try to be be like the gardener who watching a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it but exercising tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the fruit nor pinching it nor testing it to see if it is ready and then, one day he holds out his hand and the fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and eager to be eaten and at that time the gardener know, all his waiting time and patience are worth it.

With the patience and self-control which you practice it will make you become more attractive and charming in her point of view thus, this will qualify you as her daily vitamin and gives you all the chances for you to win you her heart that you ever wanted, so..gentleman..go and make her fall in love with you and make her feel that she is the happiest girl in the world!!

Chaiyok-chaiyokk!!! (n.n)