THE FIRST BLOG

Men..as you know we can't live without them, can't stop checking out their butts when they pass us on the street..with the great muscular body..his shape...his handsome face..auww..haha.
~don't lie ..I knew you girls/women felt the same way too..haha~

As fierce, independent women, we like to think that we don't need men. ~well..egoism is on the air~ We said we can change our own tires, without help by men…open our own jars, again without help by men…move our own furniture, all by ourselves…Still, it sure is nice to have men around you know..
~p/s: Guys.. just consider this as love letter from us to you..okay.. xoxo~

Below, ten things women love about men..

• Yup yup, we said it. Even the scrawny hipster-types have biceps that make us swoon..plus with their hands are almost always bigger than ours..it is stated that no matter what size a guy is, he can always make us feel small and delicate.. ~and also make us feel like we are the sweetest thing ever in the world for him to love..ahakz~ and what's with those beautiful, provocative veins guys have on their arms? ohh, not to forget the facial hair too! Sure..sometimes it gets scratchy on us but heyy, it looks so darn sexy you know..
  

2. Their innate ability to do and understand things we can't.

• Actually we hate having to rely on anyone except ourselves but sometimes it's just easier to ask him to take care of it. Sometimes we beg forgiveness for the gross generalizations that are about to follow but we always ask him to carry heavy objects up the stairs (that's mainly because of laziness, etc), hang pictures and kill large-scary-gross bugs still though after that time he pretended to throw that bug carcass at us and we screamed like a 5-year-old girl, we think we might not ask him again but still..we knew,deep down we need him..
  

3. Their secret sensitive side.

• When a guy cries in front of you, it can feel as if you've won the emotional lottery. Tears are a sign of extreme intimacy and the fact that he's let down his guard probably means that he cares about you deeply and trusts you. We also love it when we catch our man staring at us with what can only be described as "tenderness" and when he pulls us close for a quick hug, or kisses the top of our heads, our hearts just melt...~owhh..such a sweet romance~
  

• Their body wash. Their aftershave. Their (subtly-spritzed-on) cologne. Their natural, musky fragrance. All of it combines to create a perfume we can't help wanting to envelop ourselves in. ~the smell that can't be avoided to fell-in-love with~
  

5. Their brains.

• It's been scientifically proven that the male brain is different from the female brain. ~obviously..duhh'~ We're not sure if that's what makes them enjoy wedgies, football and Star Wars or not..either way, their essential "maleness" and their appreciation for our "femaleness" makes us feel pretty special about being women..and that is awesome!!
  

6. Their sense of humor.

• We love the way they can charm us with their silly jokes, think bodily functions are funny (we sometimes do, too) and make us laugh at our shortcomings and not to take ourselves too seriously especially when the hard-time come to us..and that's what makes most women can't resist men.
  

• It makes us smile when they walk on the outside, nearest to the traffic, extend a hand to help us up a steep incline or worry that we're going to get kidnapped..because even if we can totally protect ourselves without men ~it is because we've followed a strict routine of kick-boxing and belly dancing, so on~ it's still nice to feel taken care of. ~that's when our feminism and childish step-out~
  

8. Their clothes.

• Especially that tight shirt or giant-fuzzy sweater with stripes that's lined with fleece and that goes down to our knees and that ..what? You can't find your sweater honey? Um…don't look at me.. ~owhh..you just so cute..men,how they charm us~
  

9. Their dependability.

• Call it boring and predictable, but trust me it's good to be with someone whose behavior is (at least most of the time) guided by logic and common sense rather than emotions. While it can be infuriating when he manages to maintain a completely calm demeanor in the face of our most melodramatic of meltdowns ~don't you understand!?~, it can also make us feel more secure...calmly secure..
  

• In a world that values appearance over so many other traits, it's nice to know that men still desire us even when we're wearing decidedly unsexy pajamas, not wearing any make-up, with messy-undone hair, haven't shaved our legs in a week and have an emerging zit in the center of our foreheads and with all the-not-pretty-celebrity-look-like. After all, they're also not so perfect themselves and because of that we still love them. When it comes down to it, we're not so different after all..